'I feel so embarrassed I can hardly face any of them.'
To explain what was happening, I stupidly confessed to my friends, who seemed a bit horrified. Now I feel so embarrassed I can hardly face any of them and make excuses not to go out.I sympathise with how you feel, but if I’m honest, I think this is a bit of a first world problem. What really happened? Okay, a bunch of young blokes took the mickey out of you, and you feel a bit judged by your friends, but you need to put things into perspective.
Maybe you should look at some of the other issues here. It might be making you feel bad that all your old friends have moved on, but trust me, there are plenty of women in their mid-thirties who haven’t found Mr Right. You have your whole life to find love, and it will probably happen when you least expect it.
Dig a bit deeper. Is it undermining your confidence, trying to operate on the same level as people ten years younger than you? There’s nothing wrong with having friends of all ages but it’s important to be yourself. If wild nights out make you genuinely happy, go for it, but don’t feel pressured to be the life and soul just because you think that’s what people expect of you. Most people grow out of that party lifestyle eventually.
As for what happened, if it comes up just laugh it off. Watch what you drink in future and maybe don’t have ‘pornographic sex’ with people you hardly know. Take a deep breath and call all your friends, even the married ones with kids. I promise you, none of this matters half as much to them as it does to you.To get expert advice, send your problem toLondon’s best bits in your inbox
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