“It’s 9pm on a Tuesday evening and I’m in a Zoom orientation staring at 15 or so nervous, smiling faces. No, I haven’t started a new job; this is the protocol for Skirt Club.”
In 2021, Rachel* attended her first ever women-only sex party. Here, she shares how it revolutionised her long-term relationship and made space for her chronic conditions.
I’m bisexual and in a long-term ‘monogamish’ relationship with a male partner who’s into kink as much as I am. Kink means different things to different people but for us, it’s about sex positivity, sensuality, trust and, above all, fun. Effectively it’s exploring each other’s turn-ons and turn-offs in a safe and trusting environment.
I arrive at my first Skirt Club party – held in an unassuming three-story club in east London – wearing a long sheer dress that reveals my netted bodysuit underneath. Vine leaves are twisted in my hair, around my neck and down my cleavage to fit thetheme. I feel incredible. I’m also sick with nerves, as per usual. Arriving solo at any event is anxiety-inducing, let alone a sex party, and it’s harder knowing I have no friends waiting inside, but as soon as I enter the host puts me at ease.
There are women chatting all around in varying stages of undress; some standing fully clothed, some dancing, some draped on sofas in underwear and some entwined – naked – on large beds. In the BDSM dungeon, women are being flogged by professional doms and there’s a woman strapped tantalisingly to a St. Andrews Cross. Upstairs, there are cosier hideaways, including the mirrored-ceiling cubby-hole at the top of a winding spiral staircase. It was here I chose to engage in my first sexual encounter.
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